by Carla | Feb 5, 2022 | Inspiration
NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POSITIVE IMPACT YOU HAVE ON OTHERS. Your ideas, your actions, your words – intentional or unintentional, the just-who-you-are attributes and those you’ve worked hard at honing, the ‘good’ and ‘bad’ decisions you’ve made –...
by Carla | Feb 4, 2022 | Finding a Solution
SOMEONE ASKED ME RECENTLY WHETHER I THOUGHT THEY NEEDED TO CLEAR CLUTTER – mental, physical, or even relationships – in order to allow new things to come into their life. Here’s the gist of what I shared with them: Since you are asking this question, it suggests that...
by Carla | Oct 24, 2021 | Shifting Perspective
I’m not where I thought I’d be right now in an area of my life. I won’t lie: sometimes that gets me down. That is, it gets me down when I focus on the discrepancy between where I thought I’d be and where I am. [This isn’t just another ‘be...
by Carla | Oct 23, 2021 | Shifting Perspective
Thoughts, beliefs, perspectives, approaches, even personality – these things aren’t you. They are layers that have accumulated around you. ~ Thoughts and beliefs might benefit you if you changed them or cleared them away altogether. ~ Practices or habits could...
by Carla | Oct 23, 2021 | Shifting Perspective
Let’s stop trying to be perfect. Our imperfection is far more interesting. Isn’t that why we love comedians? They point out inconsistencies? Share huge blunders? Isn’t that a big part of how we identify with other people – in general? Making friends? Sure, it’s partly...
