by Carla | Oct 9, 2022 | Self-Worth & Self-Esteem
REMINDER: THEY ARE NOT BETTER THAN YOU. In this world of overabundant comparison to others, within the perspective some of us hold, we might feel that someone else – or perhaps most other people seem to have it all figured out: that they know so much more than...
by Carla | Oct 9, 2022 | Getting Through Difficult Experiences
WE CAN BE QUICK TO LAMENT A DIFFICULT OR PAINFUL EXPERIENCE – wishing things had gone differently, that we’d handled it differently, or that we’d known [this] or [that] beforehand. But the truth is: ~ we didn’t know it would go the way it did, ~ it did, indeed,...
by Carla | Oct 9, 2022 | Interactions & Communication
LISTENING CAN TAKE SOME EFFORT. Truly listening – inviting and allowing the other person to share. Asking for more details. Really being – and staying – engaged. This can take a little energy and focus – often more than simply listening in...
by Carla | Oct 9, 2022 | Discernment
THE LOUDEST VOICE IN THE ROOM, the one that speaks with most conviction, or the one who posts on social media boldly and with certainty that ‘this is how it is’ – is not always correct. Often the wisest person in the room or involved in any activity or on social...
by Carla | Oct 9, 2022 | Anxiety & Worry, Getting Through Difficult Experiences
Remember that BEFORE YOU MADE THE MISTAKE: ~ you didn’t know it wouldn’t work, ~ you didn’t know it would end up the way it did, ~ you didn’t intend for it to happen as it did, ~ you didn’t know the outcome would be as it was. You learned and now you know. You might...
