by Carla | Dec 28, 2022 | Inspiration
IF NOT NOW, THEN WHEN? IF NOT ME, THEN WHO? Reminders today for the procrastinators, and for the people who wonder if what they could say or do might even have any value, or any other ‘mights’ or ‘shoulds’ or ‘why bothers’ or ‘too lates’ or ‘what good will it do,...
by Carla | Dec 28, 2022 | Getting Through Difficult Experiences
TIME ITSELF MIGHT NOT HEAL ALL, but time does provide distance from whatever happened – which might serve to… ~ help us gain or clarify our perspective on it, once it’s not to be the biggest thing in our world (as it might have been right after it happened)...
by Carla | Dec 27, 2022 | Interactions & Communication
WE’RE ALWAYS CHANGING. Sure, you might say, of course we’re getting older: the molecules that make up our bodies are always moving, and our cells are being impacted by the environment and the food we eat and stress we experience, and it’s all happening so subtly we...
by Carla | Dec 27, 2022 | Interactions & Communication
THE LESS WE HOPE OR EXPECT OR ATTEMPT TO WILL A PERSON TO BE OR ACT OR REACT A CERTAIN WAY – even if we think it would be the ‘right’ or ‘proper’ or just the ‘reasonable’ way to do so by our standards, and… …the less we say to ourselves: I wish they would...
by Carla | Dec 27, 2022 | Getting Through Difficult Experiences, Interactions & Communication
IMPATIENCE AND ITS BRETHREN FRUSTRATION, ANGER, RUDENESS – THEY ALL COME FROM SOMEWHERE ELSE. That co-worker or boss or friend or family member who is frantic and upset and frustrated that [the thing] isn’t done or isn’t working out – their impatience, their...
