by Carla | Jan 17, 2023 | Food for Thought, Self-Worth & Self-Esteem
A RIVER LOOKS MUCH THE SAME AT ANY MOMENT from a distance, a little like how we might view our days, or even ourselves: much the same from one day to the next. But even though the river appears nearly identical on the surface from moment to moment, in truth it is in...
by Carla | Jan 15, 2023 | Food for Thought, Interactions & Communication
OVER THE YEARS I’VE SPENT SO MUCH TIME WINCING AS I’VE THOUGHT BACK TO EXPERIENCES – particularly conversations and interactions – contemplating just how much better or differently I would handle them ‘now.’ ‘Now’ is really any point after it happened...
by Carla | Jan 15, 2023 | Habits & Practices
JUST START NOW. If you want to create a new habit or start a different routine or practice – maybe you’ve been thinking about it, or you planned to start this past New Year’s but didn’t follow through – DON’T WASTE YOUR TIME LAMENTING OR BEING HARD ON...
by Carla | Jan 15, 2023 | Shifting Perspective
EVERYTHING IS HAPPENING IN DIVINE TIMING (and if you don’t like the term ‘divine’ then try ‘its own time’ or ‘at the right time’ or ‘in the timing it’s meant to’), therefore there’s no need for… ~ it should have happened (or I should have done it) before now ~...
by Carla | Jan 11, 2023 | Anxiety & Worry, Shifting Perspective
IF (OR WHEN) THE THING YOU’RE WORRIED ABOUT ACTUALLY HAPPENS, you will deal with it – just as you have dealt with all the things that have happened in your life before – whether it came out of left field or whether you had worried that it might happen....